Ham sabhi ka bachpan mein koi na koi dream zaroor hota hai aur ham sabhi us dream ko pura karne k liye bas yahi sochte hai ki ek baar sahi age aur time ane par ham use zaroor pura karenge. Magar jaise jaise time badalta hai hamare dreams ki unhi lists mein se kayi cheezen cancel out ho jati hai ya phir kuch nayi cheezen add ho jati hai. Magar kuch cheezen ismein common rehti hai childhood se old age tak. Ham apni isi list ko banate waqt ek cheez par focus karna bhool jate hai ki hamara goal kya hai aur hamara goal hi ek aisi cheez hai jo baki sare dreams ko pura ho jane se zyada khusi hame deta hai. Ab sabse pehle toh ap log goal ka matlab samajhiye, goal apka ek direction hota hai, wahi apka ambition hai, aur yahi apka passion bhi hai, apka goal sabhi wishes ka combination hai jinhe ap pura karna chahte hai, ek baat par zaroor dhyan dena ki kabhi bhi ek se zyada goals hame nahi banane chahiye hame hamesha kisi ek cheez par focus karna higa aur hamesha use hi priority deni hogi. Kyonki isse ap apne target par focus kar payenge aur apka pura attention usi par hoga.
Ab bahut se logon ka yeh confusion rehta hai ki goal ko pehchane kaise aur kaise pata karein ki ji cheez ham chahte hai woh hamara goal hai bhi ya nahi. Toh iske liye ap ek quiet si place mein jakar apne ap se yeh questions pooche.
1.
Agar us kaam ko karne k liye apko koi bhi paise nahi milenge toh kya ap tab bhi woh kaam karenge?
2.
Kya us kaam ko karne se apke ander koi improvement ho rahi hai ya hogi?
3.
Society aur baki sabhi ka kya isse koi profit hai ya nahi?
4.
Ab kya mujhe iske liye kisi bhi tarah ki koi payment milegi ya nahi?
Jab in sabhi question ka answer yes ho toh ap samajh jana ki yahi apka goal hai aur apko bas isi mein focus karna hai. Apko hamesha apne dimag mein ek baat bithani hogi ki koi bhi kaam chota ya bada nahi hota, agar apka goal bada hai toh ap use badaliye mat is fear se ki ap use achieve nahi kar payenge, is pure world mein koi bhi aisa kaam nahi hai jo ap nahi kar sakte hai, ap apne ap mein hi ek winner hai aur haesha rahenge jab tak ap apne ap ko loser nahi samajh lete hai, ap unique hai aur ap sabse best hai yeh thought apne dimag mein yeh baat hamesha rakhni chahiye, tabhi apko success milegi.
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